Mary has a law degree, a masters degree, and is an expert in her field. But the first time I met her on our coaching call on Zoom, her speaking style betrayed her expertise.
I came to discover through the course of our conversation that she’s smart, thoughtful, astute at answering people’s questions, and has great empathy for people.
But she spoke in a monotone with little emotion.
Her voice and delivery didn’t reflect the person I found her to be on the inside. She came across as lacking … [Read more...] about How To Breathe to Have a Better Voice
A New Path
I am poised to take my first step onto a hiking trail in the red clay landscape of Sedona, AZ. Wearing a brand new pair of hiking shoes that I purchased at REI just the day before (Eeek), I’m praying these babies won’t hurt my feet.
It wasn’t that I hadn’t tried to get a new pair of trail shoes earlier, I did! But I wear a size 11.5 or 12 with a somewhat narrow foot. I ordered at least 6 different pairs via mail and none of them worked.
Suddenly, last Thursday, the day before my trip, I … [Read more...] about A New Path
The Mantra That Saved Julie Andrews’ Life
Imagine having one of the most beautiful voices in the world, maybe in history, and one day losing it. Bam. Just like that. Gone.
That’s what happened to Julie Andrews nearly 30 years ago when a botched operation to fix a benign lesion on her vocal cords left her unable to sing.
What would YOU do?
Curl up in the fetal position? Go into a deep depression? Rage against the forces that took your greatest gift and stole your identity?
No doubt Dame Julie Andrews did all of those … [Read more...] about The Mantra That Saved Julie Andrews’ Life
Here’s to Great Beginnings
I couldn’t believe the date when I looked it up last night. May of 2012. It’s been 14 years. Yet it’s still so clear in my mind.
I was driving home from Northbrook on a Sunday evening.
Alec Baldwin’s smooth voice was introducing Renee Fleming on his radio show, Here’s the Thing.
Baldwin has a way with introductions, and this one lives in my memory:
“Renee Fleming has a powerful effect on people. Conductor sir George Solti described the opera singer’s voice as double cream. Garrison … [Read more...] about Here’s to Great Beginnings
Do you know what esprit de l’escalier means?
Patty and I recently chatted across her table on her back patio as she told me about being a female partner at a prestigious accounting firm in Chicago, and she had something on her mind.
Patty is very successful, especially for a woman in a male-dominated industry.
“Almost every industry is male-dominated,” she interjected, “so there’s really no need to make the distinction.”
Point taken.
Patty agreed to meet with me in person to answer my survey entitled “How to be an Amazing … [Read more...] about Do you know what esprit de l’escalier means?